Q0385. The recognition?

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I only had a relationship with my twin for 1 or 2 months but it was the most beautiful relationship I have ever had I felt spiritual love and felt a huge attraction and radiate light, but at the time when we were together I was super happy but I was not too concerned about it and then the thoughts of true love did not immediately come to my mind, but I knew that I had never liked anyone so much. A voice in me said that this was my true love, when I wanted to explain the voice in my head, it was as if something in me did not want that, I did not want to think at all of that thought that it was my true love (because he lives in another country and I knew he was going back) I completely ruled out that and I DIDN’T WANT IT !!!!!!! NO finally found and now it turns out that it’s someone I can’t keep? Such disruptive thoughts !! Entirely in denial, after a certain time I had to admit to my own that this was not like an! other love and never could it be, I felt a connection at a deeper level that I really couldn’t place at the time! With him, everything that I had done in this life in my life fell apart like a puzzle !! they had prepared me But when the time came and he idd went back to his country, I could pretend for a long time that it didn’t hurt me, and I did that to him a lot, if someone asked about it I pretended it wasn’t important , knowing that I was ahead of myself, only a few months, almost a year after I never saw him again, did it suddenly start to rise? It was as if I had suppressed that feeling for a year because I did not want to acknowledge which band we really had and suddenly the bomb hit me overnight and I started crying? And since then I suddenly realized it was him for me but why so suddenly and after a year? So we probably haven’t had a recognition like this is often mentioned here ?? or is that the recognition after that year that I suddenly felt it .. After 2 years I saw him again for 1 minute but it was shortly before that the feelings started to become more and more likely because I allowed it and it is now flowering could come. When I saw him again and just before I felt feelings that I had not yet felt for him so intense and strong, unbelievable !! I more or less realized that we were true loves, but my question is, is this now what the recognition was, that heavy feeling or does that mean more? Could the recognition still have to occur? Or do you think it didn’t take place like a bomb in my feeling but quietly little by little the recognition took place? If that was the recognition then it was very unconscious but I do feel that since that day I can feel it with me and he can feel it even stronger, can someone help me with this, answer my question and perhaps give some characteristics about recognition? Thanks in advance:-) that heavy feeling or hold that even more ?? Could the recognition still have to occur? Or do you think it didn’t take place like a bomb in my feeling but quietly little by little the recognition took place? If that was the recognition then it was very unconscious but I do feel that since that day I can feel it with me and he can feel it even stronger, can someone help me with this, answer my question and perhaps give some characteristics about recognition? Thanks in advance:-) that heavy feeling or hold that even more ?? Could the recognition still have to occur? Or do you think it didn’t take place like a bomb in my feeling but quietly little by little the recognition took place? If that was the recognition then it was very unconscious but I do feel that since that day I can feel it with me and he can feel it even stronger, can someone help me with this, answer my question and perhaps give some characteristics about recognition? Thanks in advance:-)

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Yes it may be that the recognition comes slowly BUT certainly, instead of suddenly. You have to remember, so much happens between the twin halves, everything has to be sorted out. Sometimes it can’t all be done at once, then you become And those intense feelings, can only come later, so much happens between you on an energetic level, and so powerfully, you have to learn how to deal with that, it doesn’t happen all at once, stay calm, it will pass once. Well, somewhere you also have to regret your twinflame, and especially if he or she is with someone else. It still remains someone of flesh and blood, please do not put it on a pedestal. Incidentally, those feelings also occur in the case of intense crush, but so heavy … For me my twinflame started to attract me enormously, as if I had a weight on my heart, a place with a diameter of ± 10 cm. around my heart that felt really warm. It started Friday afternoon and hi! until Sunday afternoon. Later that afternoon my dog ​​drowned. Do you know what I mean, energetic contact, so strong, while as a person he may not have noticed it? I wonder if women deal with it more intensively, or are they more sensitive to it, women also often feel that they have a twinflame than men. (Unknown)

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Yes, I thought so, gradually it is less stressful than suddenly !! I think men are better at suppressing their true feelings, but I have read many books, and what I can conclude from them is that men only behave differently because it was so imposed by the world and society, because that is what was expected of them, they say men are unfaithful, is that so or are they women hunters because the media and the government makes them more and more so ?? Look the truth is usually not something that is obvious, nothing is what it seems (I got through yesterday when I was asking myself a few questions) And that made me think a lot, it’s not because you absolutely think something and everything confirms that it is true !! Life is not boring and predictive and unchangeable, view life as it really is, changeable, misleading, playful, unexpected, miraculous, by the way, I also think you have a big influence on h yourself! he only lives by your way of thinking, something you do not believe in can not happen or you cannot see it either !!! Men and women are originally the same in soul, but over the centuries differences have grown through, the differences were initially not that great and now say man or woman every person is looking for his other part, isn’t this what everyone wants? ?? I think he feels the same but either does not know what to do with his feelings and what he feels, he does not know how to place it and does not understand it because he has never experienced it before, or he knows what that is but he does not want it because he is still his fear / ego is stuck !! Whatever it is time brings advice and you will probably know what to do in a while! Lots of love (Claudia)