Q0274. How can I let go of my soulmate and get over that love? How should I see this now and how can I best deal with this?

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Last year I met my soulmate / love “by chance”. The feeling was immediately clear to me. And that he is my soulmate is later also confirmed by a medium. He feels very attracted to me and at home with me, but does not feel any butterflies in his stomach. That is why he is convinced that he does not love me and that it could never be something between us. Because he is convinced that you must have butterflies first. We no longer have contact, because he doesn’t want to hurt me. But how can I let go of my soulmate and get over that love? How should I see this now and how can I best deal with this? Now that I have found him, does my life feel so incomplete without him?

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I too have had to shed a lot of tears, this love is so terribly deep that you lose yourself. I could never believe if someone said: let go, then happiness will come to you automatically. for letting go that was impossible, a life without my soul love, I didn’t have to think about it. I got angry if someone said so. Now at this point, I wonder, is it indeed not just a lesson that we must learn? I have known my soul love for 6 years now, but I notice that we are both changing. through that process. Is it true that we are really going to let go of each other? And that another person comes into your life instead? Or is that one soul love forever? I pulled it out of a deep well, was I only good for that? And may we not enjoy that beautiful love? At first I wasn’t free, he was. Now we are both free, and it feels like we are increasingly releasing each other? So isn’t this forever? Will I soon have to share my life with another man? (Unknown)

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“And may we not enjoy that beautiful love?” Hi dear stranger, who I know .. and you me .. After all these years I find out more and more that we only meet our soul love (s) to to discover ourselves and start to love. And that you teach each other in that. That you consciously come / are in your transformation process. I will also increasingly experience this as something that takes place in another dimension. You cannot steer it, it will come your way and you will have to go through it, no matter how difficult it may be … there is no way back … but you come out as your true I. Good luck! love (Maria Rosa)

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I experience it every day. The pain that it does, the realization that we will never be together. He has another and it tears me up inside when I hear or see how super nice they have it together. Of course I want him to be happy, but on the other hand it also hurts a lot. I will always love him. I have been in love before, have been married for years, but this feels completely different. So complete with him and so incomplete without him. (Unknown)

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‘Soul love is an ultimate opportunity to learn quickly, much. The most beautiful and strongest form of learning in love is soul love. Sometimes a very special person comes into your life that you seem to feel very extreme love for. Yet it is your own love that you can now suddenly feel very well. That is the effect of that other person. A soul’s love lets you feel how love ‘was again’ without personality, without matter, without anything, just pure love. This is such a strong feeling that it is incredibly confronting for you. This allows you to learn at a record pace what removes you from this deepest love. You can then decide for yourself if and what you want to do to get closer to your own love. (text Love page). (Unknown)

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Nice educational piece of this, for those who wrote this. And I am certainly glad I met her, I now finally know what true love feels like. I grew incredibly fast because of her, I will never make the same mistake again, as I did in the past, before I met her. The fact that I have to go on without her now hurts me a lot, but I never wanted to miss her. This has been the best moment of my life. something I still cherish. I now have to complete my process myself. (Roy)

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Your twinflame offers an unprecedented path of spiritual growth and healing within yourself. Your spiritual growth goes into a huge acceleration when you meet your twin, … Sometimes the one has not grown as much as you, and then you have to let go of each other for the time being, in order to give the other time to grow. These are the obstacles in a soul-love relationship. If you don’t grow together at the same time. But no sadness, you always stay together spiritually. Even if you let each other have freedom. unconditional love, knows no sorrow or jealousy. (Unknown)

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Intimacy does not arise in the bedroom but is the intense connection between 2 souls who recognize, acknowledge and find each other in prosperity and adversity. Simply be there. But you won’t find that connection on the outside either. And feeling from the heart is beyond any intensity. The rest follows naturally, on a different level, in unprecedented beauty. Living from the heart is a great thing, once you experience this, you no longer want anything else. Unconditional love, in freedom, is the most beautiful thing to feel and experience. Everyone finally arrives, the choice is to make a detour or stay on your path. Unconditional love, in freedom, is the most beautiful thing to feel and experience. (Unknown)

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He does not feel the butterflies in his belly. Because what he immediately felt is what comes after falling in love in most situations: love! In a situation of soul love you skip the period of falling in love, is my experience. (Michel)