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Now I met her 5 months ago. When I saw her, I “recognized” her. When we first looked into each other’s eyes it was; wow. Not that we said that, but I just felt that. When we looked at each other for a second time just after, we looked at each other for a very long time. The feeling was so intense! I hardly dared to stand close to her. It was very strange. A week later we saw each other again. We happened upon ‘accidentally’. Normally people avoid each other. But I thought; I don’t want to avoid her anymore but just want to face this confrontation. And I think she felt and thought the same because she didn’t avoid me either. once we almost ran into each other she just grabbed my arm and looked me deep in my eyes. then she released me. And that moment I got a very big shiver over my whole body. In the following times it was as if she wanted to make it clear to me that we are twinflames because sometimes she said things she could not know. And they made remarks like; I! already know everything about you .. The feeling was sometimes so intense that I wanted to run away from it. At a certain point I asked if she wanted to hold my bracelet during the rehearsal because at that moment I felt that she just had to wear it. I gave this to her. she immediately put it on him. After an hour or two, she had dismissed him. And the moment I saw that she had taken it off and I wondered why she had taken the bracelet off, she said from scratch; don’t be afraid I haven’t lost it but it made me feel so hot .. And that while I didn’t even ask her where the bracelet was .. She just knew it .. that I thought that and wondered The days after that were very intense for me .. I felt her so strongly that I just started to shake when I thought of her .. I could not eat or sleep .. Now we have each other 4 months not seen .. And from the moment we no longer saw each other, I have sought mail contact .. we still have ma now! ilcontact every week .. At one point her e-mails became very cold and distant .. (she is married has children … I still continued to just keep normal in my e-mails to her .. Sweet by little she becomes again a bit warmer in her e-mails .. I just get crazy about the fact that I miss her so much, I also had a dream about her in which she said that I have to be patient because she really doesn’t know what to do with the situation .. Now I’m going to see her again soon but just don’t know exactly when .. I actually don’t know how to deal with the situation .. She’s so deep in me and I feel her so violently .. And I miss her so intense .. It feels like I love her unconditionally .. And she doesn’t have to leave her husband for me either .. I don’t want to put her to that choice .. I don’t want to hurt her .. I only want so fierce towards a ‘fusion’ I just don’t know how to tell her this. I’m also afraid of being hurt. I know deep in my heart that she feels exactly the same and that she also feels me .. but I want to talk about it once (we have never talked about these feelings) The strange thing is that I do have telepathic contact with her, But how am I supposed to raise this? Because it is something violent .. And I am also afraid of losing her .. I know that soul love is forever .. But I am so afraid that I will have to miss her again for a lifetime, now, now that I finally found her! … Does anyone please have advice?
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I understand your feelings very well. I am also married and have a soul love. You ask how you can explain it to her? I think you already have words without words, but maybe it’s a good idea to email your story you write here to her? Or to send her through this site so that self-recognition is achieved in soul love? You keep us informed? You met each other by chance, but you know that chance does not exist. Everything happens with a reason. A soul-loving bond is forever. You will both get a whole process, but you will assist each other, even if you do not see each other. That spiritual bond that you have together is stronger than anything else. (Unknown)
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Yes, I always give her hints via e-mail .. But I do not dare to be specific in the e-mail. I just really dare not .. Sometimes I doubt .. then I think .. yes I feel so sure, and I also feel that she feels the same .. But because it feels so certain you also become uncertain again; you suddenly realize that it may not be the case at all .. that the feeling comes from only one side .. that she might hardly think of me. In addition, I am just afraid that she will reject me terribly because she is simply married. Like I said before; I do not need a relationship with her .. at least not necessarily because I do not want to limit her in the happiness that she now has with her family .. And sometimes I am just so afraid to feel so much pain that I love her so much but that I cannot give it a place. I miss her so much already. I already crave her so much. She has been in my head all day and that for 5 months. I so much long for an amalgamation. Over there! besides that I also feel very sexually attracted to her. And then I am not talking about the desire for ‘sex’ But making love to each other … Fusing together .. The feeling of being 1 … Sometimes it also seems as if I can no longer ‘feel’ her, that is also something that makes it me makes uncertain .. Then I think; or she shuts herself off from me, or I dare not feel her because I am sometimes insecure here .. (Unknown) The feeling of being 1 … Sometimes it also seems as if I can no longer ‘feel’ her. That is also something that makes me insecure. Then I think; or she shuts herself off from me, or I dare not feel her because I am sometimes insecure here .. (Unknown) The feeling of being 1 … Sometimes it also seems as if I can no longer ‘feel’ her. That is also something that makes me insecure. Then I think; or she shuts herself off from me, or I dare not feel her because I am sometimes insecure here .. (Unknown)
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longer you know each other, the more you experience, I too have felt torn apart, and not I alone, we together, but I know NOW that I do not have to fear, fear destroys love, and soul love is unconditional . The universe decides when you can be together. And that spiritual connection that you have together says more than 10 thousands of words. My tip is: Do not force it, know that this is unconditional, and feeling insecure is not necessary. When the time is right, you will come together. (Unknown)
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I think it’s great that you tell your story here! something educational for me, because now I suddenly realize how MY soulmate (a man) should feel. Nice that men also respond. You know when you think of each other, and you also feel when things get worse with someone. That is the beauty of a spiritual connection. You will experience that this love is forever, and that no one can get in between. (Unknown)
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Dear people, I am the author of the question above .. I just did not state clearly that I am also a woman .. I am a woman and I cherish these feelings for another woman … Dusja .. I thought to tell for clarity ! thanks for the responses .. Yes maybe I just have to wait until the time is right for us to see each other again, or in any case that we are going to talk about it .. The only problem is that it seems like I am ‘gone’. I don’t pull it anymore it seems sometimes .. But I have to, because you can’t stop something like that .. It gulps up energy on me .. Especially because I have no certainty about what her feelings are for me .. And Of course I also want to create clarity, but you have to do it with a lot of caution. Sometimes the bond with her seems so fragile.
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Soul love is soul love no matter if you are a woman or a man. We usually recognize our soul affinity when we work together, or that both do the same work, or that there is the same ‘vision’ feeling. Or if the spark suddenly blows, this can be between male / female or between female / female or between male / male. It has nothing to do with sex, recognition is then received from each other through the same vibrations. When recognitions come, you will find out for yourself in which ‘connection’ this soul recognition is. Vibrations are different for each group, and the higher the vibrations, the more pure the group is. (Unknown)
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Soul love or flight for himself Also I have a (nasty) experience with this, I have lived together for over 5.5 years with my friend, the guy I thought I was getting old with until he told me 3 months ago that I was in love with someone else, nothing noticed, still not until our last night together. He left two weeks ago and immediately moved in with the other. He still loves me, was not unhappy with me either but thinks he can become happier there… he cannot tell me what it is… but I think that bit of extra happiness is something he lacks in himself and what he lacks who thinks he can find … always has the feeling that he has had soulmates, can share everything … and that is mutual … even now that he is with that other person he gives to me and everything around us to be missed .. me and others with me have advised him to seek help first to be happy with himself again to share it with me or the other … but he does not feel and see it, while I have seen him change into a person he is not… is he now fleeing from himself to avoid his past and the associated negative memories? should I let him go and hope that he does not want the road to himself and to me, the partner with whom he thought he would grow old up to 2 months ago (his own words) and all this not? after his decision to choose the other person, he stayed for more than 6 weeks without doing anything, in the end I asked him to leave as nothing changed about the situation. (Arie) while I have seen him change into a person he is not … is he now fleeing himself to avoid his past and associated negative memories? should I let him go and hope that he does not want the road to himself and to me, the partner with whom he thought he would grow old up to 2 months ago (his own words) and all this not? after his decision to choose the other person, he stayed for more than 6 weeks without doing anything, in the end I asked him to leave as nothing changed about the situation. (Arie) while I have seen him change into a person he is not … is he now fleeing himself to avoid his past and associated negative memories? should I let him go and hope that he does not want the road to himself and to me, the partner with whom he thought he would grow old up to 2 months ago (his own words) and all this not? after his decision to choose the other person, he stayed for more than 6 weeks without doing anything, in the end I asked him to leave as nothing changed about the situation. (Arie) the partner with whom he thought he would grow old until 2 months ago (his own words) and did not want all this? after his decision to choose the other person, he stayed for more than 6 weeks without doing anything, in the end I asked him to leave as nothing changed about the situation. (Arie) the partner with whom he thought he would grow old until 2 months ago (his own words) and did not want all this? after his decision to choose the other person, he stayed for more than 6 weeks without doing anything, in the end I asked him to leave as nothing changed about the situation. (Arie)
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Hello everyone I would keep you informed, so now I do as promised .. Gosh I no longer know how to feel with God, for two weeks I am in a bizarre situation .. As I told you I contact her. The emails are fickle. But I too am unclear, I give her sufficient instructions, but apparently that is not a confirmation for her that when I mail her and I talk about the woman for whom I have such strong feelings, that I am talking about her. Probably she really wants to hear it from my mouth. She recently sent me that I ‘should perhaps be clearer about something. I then sent her an e-mail saying that sometimes you cannot immediately approach a situation with clarity because you can then force things again. And that I really want to be clear, but that I don’t dare. On that email I received an invitation from her for an exhibition she is holding. I accepted the invitation and that means that I will see her in a week, she has also offered me to sleep at her home. Because otherwise I have to go home late at night. I’m not sure what I am! must think or expect. Because this really comes from nowhere. We have been emailing each other for four and a half months without having seen each other once during that time. It has now been almost 5 months since I last saw her. Her invitation and offer to sleep with her is, as you may understand, totally unexpected. I really don’t know what to think about it. On the one hand, if I sleep there it also means that I will meet her husband and I find that a strange idea, not only her husband but also her children. And in her e-mail with the invitation, she also told her that her husband will be present and that I can meet him. I find this really a bit bizarre. because never, no has she ever spoken 1 word about her husband in her emails in those four months literally not once! And now suddenly. It is incredibly double for me. I know that I will see her again and that I will go to her house! sleeping which is of course very nice, but I will also have to meet her husband. And I wonder what her motives are, where this comes from so nothing. It is extremely difficult for me because the situation is no longer clear at all. And I know it will be very intense. That tension is so great between us .. I am now really starting to doubt myself … whether I feel it all wrong. Because if the tension is so high, don’t you ask me if I want to sleep with you while your husband and children are there? I set myself up that I should not expect anything, that I stay there for the night, wake up in the morning and that nothing will happen .. Sigh I’m really desperate. And I have not been able to sleep for a week because I know that I am going to see her and this very bizarre situation. make it happen all at once ??? (unknown) if I don’t feel it all wrong. Because if the tension is so high, don’t you ask me if I want to sleep with you while your husband and children are there? I set myself up that I should not expect anything, that I stay there for the night, wake up in the morning and that nothing will happen .. Sigh I’m really desperate. And I have not been able to sleep for a week because I know that I am going to see her and this very bizarre situation. make it happen all at once ??? (unknown) if I don’t feel it all wrong. Because if the tension is so high, don’t you ask me if I want to sleep with you while your husband and children are there? I set myself up that I should not expect anything, that I stay there for the night, wake up in the morning and that nothing will happen .. Sigh I’m really desperate. And I have not been able to sleep for a week because I know that I am going to see her and this very bizarre situation. make it happen all at once ??? (unknown) wake up again in the morning and that nothing will happen .. Sigh I am really desperate. And I have not been able to sleep for a week because I know that I am going to see her and this very bizarre situation. make it happen all at once ??? (unknown) wake up again in the morning and that nothing will happen .. Sigh I am really desperate. And I have not been able to sleep for a week because I know that I am going to see her and this very bizarre situation. make it happen all at once ??? (unknown)
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As I read your last message, I cannot help but feel that she knows exactly what is going on. Which ‘weapon’ is stronger than the ‘weapon’ that you are attacked by? She invites you to her home, but you are also confronted with her life. This is not meant to be negative, but I think she wants to show you that she is happy and that she doesn’t want to hurt you. You can choose to go and continue a beautiful friendship or you opt for something else, which may mean that you are banning her from your life, which of course is almost impossible if you have such deep feelings. Remember that soul love is within yourself and that nobody can take it away from you! (Sometimes the reality is more cruel than you can imagine). I wish you a lot of strength and wisdom. (Unknown)
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I think she wants to show you what she leaves behind if she chooses you. Even though her heart is with you, with her mind and her obligation she is with ahar family, and I know how difficult it is to have to make choices. The family does not deserve this. (Unknown)
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I went to her with a lot of nerves .. And I had a turbulent time. But the choice to go to her twel led to clarity between us .. A wonderful experience .. I told her .. And everything but really AllES .. frankly. The fact that she feels the same is a real relief for me, only she doesn’t have the physical attraction, while I do feel it towards her .. But I don’t care at all .. She said she thinks we are each other from the previous life .. so it was very nice that she feels exactly the same. We are now open and honest to each other and that is a godsend .. Because there are plenty of people who dare not be honest and open to each other .. And it often happens that one dares and that the other runs away fast and disappears.
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I have already mentioned to you that I have had a short-term relationship with a woman, but I am also married, but we cannot live without each other and let go of each other, we no longer see each other but send text messages almost every day, we feel zzooooooo good to each other too, she has had a new relationship with a woman for a long time, but she also cannot let go of what we had and we understand each other, and there is absolutely no jealousy, you will wonder why am I then with my husband, now that is also a process of learning to let go for 22 years, and I am convinced that if you are destined for each other, you will meet again! (Unknown)
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How good that you went and how wonderful that you were able to tell everything. Cherish this exceptional love! (Unknown)