Q0205. Can my stepdaughter be my twinflame?

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I have such a connection with my stepdaughter but she is 26 years younger I am sure she feels the same as I alone I do not want to admit it I am not a minute without her and we are always cuddling and having always in some way physical contact from day 1 I have not felt this in my whole life can this be my twinflame?

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I don’t have a good feeling about this at all. You do not state whether you are a man or a woman, but you feel like a man in transition … If that is correct, I would like to suggest that you may have ended up in a reversed adolescent emotional emotional flow and that you still have unfulfilled deepest desires. and your (finite) libido can play tricks on you considerably and you can cloud your clear view of what is really going on. You say I think … .. she won’t admit it. With authentic soul love, that information between the two is open and conscious. You both know things just take a good look at yourself why you can’t keep away from her. In principle, an age difference should not play a role in this love, but 26 years younger does not feel like a healthy equal match. And also your stepdaughter ??? What about her mother your partner? How does it feel about this? Not everything that feels violent is soul love! (Unknown)

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I read the answer to your question here and have to say that I don’t really think it’s a loving answer. Souls know no age, that your stepdaughter is 26 years younger should not be an obstacle. There are enough twinflames who care about each other for so many years. It is also not the case that you both have the answers and you know how things work between you. It happens incredibly often that one of the twinflames is less spiritually developed than the other because the other person simply chooses a slower pace to learn his / her soul lessons and to go through the transformation process. When twinflames meet there is always a soul recognition, your higher self knows what it is like. But that does not mean that on earthly and human level you also recognize that other person as your twinflame. It is often the case that in the beginning there is recognition from both sides, but when the process starts to release the old fears, old beliefs, old identities, norms and values, old patterns etc, many fall into the ego, so their fear. And fear removes you from love, fear does not recognize love either. Love will only recognize you if you no longer need that fear / wall / mask to hide behind. It is also not the case that both twinflames always realize that they are twinflames. This can happen if a twinflame denies love out of a fear of attachment, or has fear of love, has difficulty accepting others in his / her heart, is not sufficiently awakened / developed, and the twinflame is unconsciously denied. You often hear from twinflames that their other half always says ‘what is that between us’? or “I still don’t know what that is between us.” This is because people do not yet recognize themselves as Eternal (true) Love from unconsciousness. These souls have not yet gone through their process and lessons. Recognition will be there if there are enough old fears / beliefs / identities etc released / transformed. So if your stepdaughter doesn’t want to admit it, this may be because her Fear-Ego is preventing her from recognizing herself and you as True Love. Many unconscious people still cling to learned norms and values. It was always the case that if you let in with a married person, you were an adulterer. Or in the case of a woman you were a slut or slut. But who thinks that? Are we ourselves or is it our environment that still clings to that kind of old beliefs and adopted / learned norms and values? You know yourself whether you are a good person or not and act with purity. Another cannot tell you whether it is your twinflame or not. That is something that only your higher self / soul can know. The moment you doubt and are therefore not sure that it is your twinflame, you will no longer have contact with your higher self / soul. Your soul never doubts, it knows! Love Trusts, Believes and Knows. Maybe this is a piece that you can still work on? That you develop more self-confidence, self-love and faith? These 3 things ensure that you are connected to your higher self. (Ivy) Another cannot tell you whether it is your twinflame or not. That is something that only your higher self / soul can know. The moment you doubt and are therefore not sure that it is your twinflame, you will no longer have contact with your higher self / soul. Your soul never doubts, it knows! Love Trusts, Believes and Knows. Maybe this is a piece that you can still work on? That you develop more self-confidence, self-love and faith? These 3 things ensure that you are connected to your higher self. (Ivy) Another cannot tell you whether it is your twinflame or not. That is something that only your higher self / soul can know. The moment you doubt and are therefore not sure that it is your twinflame, you will no longer have contact with your higher self / soul. Your soul never doubts, it knows! Love Trusts, Believes and Knows. Maybe this is a piece that you can still work on? That you develop more self-confidence, self-love and faith? These 3 things ensure that you are connected to your higher self. (Ivy) Maybe this is a piece that you can still work on? That you develop more self-confidence, self-love and faith? These 3 things ensure that you are connected to your higher self. (Ivy) Maybe this is a piece that you can still work on? That you develop more self-confidence, self-love and faith? These 3 things ensure that you are connected to your higher self. (Ivy)

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Why wouldn’t that be 26 years apart? Take a look at Belinda Meuldijk, or at Patricia Paay. Age difference is part of soul love. But soul love that you feel right, that’s true. There is a difference in soul love and inner lust. (Unknown)

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I met my soul love in ’95. After a short relationship, she wanted nothing to do with me anymore. She didn’t recognize me. Half a year later it was hit, she recognized me and wanted to continue. That also went wrong quickly. 8 years later she found me on the internet and we both had a relationship then. She was married with child, I only a girlfriend. We chose each other. The relationship was heavenly and the sex divine. Merge. Abruptly the relationship was broken by her after 1 year and she went back to her ex-husband, who constantly made her feel guilty. She chose her family, I could only accept that. Now (2009) 5 years later she still appears in my dreams, she tells me that it is just a friend with whom she does “it” but that it does not mean anything and that I have to be patient, wait. I have been patient for 15 years … I have been completely devastated several times, gone through it spiritually, emotionally, physically and even financially. In 2005 I got through! to hear a seance that I had to let it go and that more beautiful moments would come. It remains extremely sad that you cannot share the best years (when you are young and vital) with each other. I don’t have the feeling that I can truly enter into a relationship with another woman, I should deny myself in that. I once left a woman like a wreck for my twin, I don’t want to do that again. Maybe in 10 years’ time, when her daughter is an adult, I will have another chance. Nice dilemma, letting go while she asks to wait. (Unknown) physically and even financially. In 2005 I got through! to hear a seance that I had to let it go and that more beautiful moments would come. It remains extremely sad that you cannot share the best years (when you are young and vital) with each other. I don’t have the feeling that I can truly enter into a relationship with another woman, I should deny myself in that. I once left a woman like a wreck for my twin, I don’t want to do that again. Maybe in 10 years’ time, when her daughter is an adult, I will have another chance. Nice dilemma, letting go while she asks to wait. (Unknown) physically and even financially. In 2005 I got through! to hear a seance that I had to let it go and that more beautiful moments would come. It remains extremely sad that you cannot share the best years (when you are young and vital) with each other. I don’t have the feeling that I can truly enter into a relationship with another woman, I should deny myself in that. I once left a woman like a wreck for my twin, I don’t want to do that again. Maybe in 10 years’ time, when her daughter is an adult, I will have another chance. Nice dilemma, letting go while she asks to wait. (Unknown) It remains extremely sad that you cannot share the best years (when you are young and vital) with each other. I don’t have the feeling that I can truly enter into a relationship with another woman, I should deny myself in that. I once left a woman like a wreck for my twin, I don’t want to do that again. Maybe in 10 years’ time, when her daughter is an adult, I will have another chance. Nice dilemma, letting go while she asks to wait. (Unknown) It remains extremely sad that you cannot share the best years (when you are young and vital) with each other. I don’t have the feeling that I can truly enter into a relationship with another woman, I should deny myself in that. I once left a woman like a wreck for my twin, I don’t want to do that again. Maybe in 10 years’ time, when her daughter is an adult, I will have another chance. Nice dilemma, letting go while she asks to wait. (Unknown) take another chance. Nice dilemma, letting go while she asks to wait. (Unknown) take another chance. Nice dilemma, letting go while she asks to wait. (Unknown)

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I don’t dare answer that well, because the writer is not really clear in his story. Idd, male or female, what are the intentions? I would say personally, learn to deal with that attraction to her and do what is right for your partner and the daughter. Keep in mind that the ego of desire can also play tricks. (Unknown)

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Thank you Ivy for your enlightening answer. (Unknown)