So many people who are no longer able to stay in a marriage or relationship that started on a personal self level and in which one of them has started to live from more heart unity and insight, from the soul and the higher self, while the other is just keep busy with just everyday things. Until recently it was still possible, but not anymore. The soul has to lack too much if there is no resonance coming back from the partner at that level. No Light Carrier soul can now remain in the soul cold for a long time. It just doesn’t work, no matter how you want. Certainly in a otherwise fine and valuable relationship this is very painful. Often the relationship continues and a mourning period, a farewell from the soul has been going on for a long time, until it is actually spoken. Who recognizes this? What is the solution by going into a sad marriage or following your feelings and going for your own happiness?
It is just what you say, if your relationship is further valuable and good in other areas, that decision is huge. But perhaps it looks like “postponement of execution” because once you have experienced soul love, a door has opened that cannot be closed anymore. That is my personal experience in any case. I get up with it and go to bed with it. It controls my thinking and doing as a silent desire that I cannot describe. But with children and a family you can’t just say “I follow my soul and my feelings”. Maybe it should take shape in a different way. In any case, I know for sure that you can love several people at the same time in different ways. This is only sometimes incompatible and unacceptable for your partner. (Unknown)
I don’t know if there is a way back … I do know that for two years now I have had very strong feelings for someone who also has a family & children. Kben has been at a considerable distance from him for quite a while now, and even now he thinks about him every day and he just can’t let go. I am not a type that costs what it costs for my own happiness, especially when a family is involved … It seems as if there is soul love, this does not want and can wear out .. I wish you all the best with your difficult situation! (Unknown)
An unhappy marriage is not pleasant for another. Do not stay out of guilt, you also keep the other person imprisoned if he or she does not have the power to break the relationship. Don’t deny yourself. Children often sense that something is wrong between mum and dad. Choosing for yourself is often the best choice for all involved, although it sometimes seems selfish. (Unknown)
No there is no way back, it goes further against my memory and my experience; children become unhappy and sick from a relationship that is no longer correct, that has been very good but that results in a difference in growth. then something gnaws and that only gets worse, then you can no longer say we just continue, that is not selfish to say goodbye in love, that is loving but yes we live in a society in which divorce is viewed in a judgmental way and I had to adjust that opinion myself so I get it (Unknown)