Jet
What should I do to make my grief bearable?
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Jet I read your story at {Soul Love Experiences}. I recognize this precisely, the feeling of being totally connected to each other. Even if it is the other way around with us. I also have a relationship, while I prefer to be with my soul love. The feeling slowly takes the upper hand. As you say maybe we will be together in a few years. That he first has to go through a prose you can hear that with almost all soul loved ones. But then I have something like that … are we years back? And we are not getting any younger. That you will be faced with a choice in your life, that will not happen to you, a chance to become happy. What you might regret later if you don’t. I am also in that process, want to continue with my soul love, but fear of having to leave my family behind. You do turn everything upside down. While I actually deserved the luck. I’m in a terrible fight. Because you will never get that chance again. To continue with your great love. Wish you a lot of strength. Know how difficult it is .. but believe me .. true love conquers everything! (Angel)
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I, too, have read your story on “Soul Love Experiences” and my experiences are VERY close to yours. I am not going to go into too much detail because I don’t want my soul love to recognize our situation in my answer. But here too I am talking about a partner who has done everything to separate and keep us apart. Such a situation has arisen where I myself (and perhaps my soul love either) do not understand anything anymore and contact has become completely impossible. There is only pain and sadness and silence. I feel that we are both embroiled in a terrible struggle in our own (unsustainable) relationship with our partner we have already been with. I am told by many experts that we each have to go through that own struggle. I always feel that we are coming together again and that my soul love loves me very much. But I have become too tired to think about how that could happen. I can only let myself drift on time. And I believe that time brings us back together, no matter how difficult and difficult this (learning) process is. The sadness cannot be made bearable, because it is not bearable …. it always remains and only gets deeper … But keep feeling positive and do not let yourself be “put in the pit” by your mental reasoning (that is something that myself always happens). When the time comes for you to be together again, this will happen. I get a very tough and long lesson in PATIENCE. But I am convinced that later on when we will be together again, I will understand, that we HAD to endure this difficult and heavy Soul Love life lesson to be able to come together again. I continue to believe in this and I remain confident. I wish you a lot of patience, believe in your soul love, perseverance and strength. (VL)
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Discover and acknowledge what your real desires are, without making them fearful. With that you can also acknowledge that you may have to change things. Indulging in your desires may mean that you are dissatisfied with your current situation. Then let that be an incentive to take action and take control of your life. On the one hand it is pleasant and gives a good feeling, on the other hand it is also a painful side. since it is not always easy to cut knots. Cutting the knot can mean the end of a relationship and that is not always easy, especially when there are children in between. My Tip: choose your own happiness, follow your heart. To Jet, I would say, Trust your feeling about what you’re doing now, the effort of your time will be rewarded. (Unknown)
Answer To make big decisions, you first have to feel good about yourself. His wife has taken him out of balance. By pulling on him, give him a jet time. soul love is stronger than earthly love, which passes over. (Loes)
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My girlfriend has been making a choice for 3 years now, making choices is a hell that you end up in. Especially if there is a family. So every time there are obstacles, it seems like soul lovers should never be happy. (Eddy)
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{For Jet} Soul love sorrow, I came in contact with Chi neng (those are Exercises) and started faithfully doing those exercises every day. A miracle happened! For the first time in my life I was able to let go. I didn’t call him excessively or something and I could very well go my own way. I did nice things and didn’t get depressed. That of course does not mean that I had a hard time. Crying, talking and the whole mikmak was indeed there but it was no longer compulsive. The pain was bearable. Now thank goodness we are together again. I think this happened because I had to work on this part of the cosmos. I don’t think the relationship would be restored if I hadn’t learned to let go at the time. I really think it should have been that way and I think Chi Neng helped me learn to let go. It also gives me energy,
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I want to warn you (and I know how difficult this is), but don’t try to make your wife choose between him or you. I know from experience that your wife will never drop her (TZ) Gemini Soul. This feeling is so enormously strong for her that it is impossible for her to make a choice. (Unknown)
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It should NEVER be the case that your family and partner abandon you in a hurry. For a Soul Love. You will never get it back. (Dylan)
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In this society we are so fixated on having a relationship and being together with 1 person, as an expression of the ultimate love. But in fact, I think that has nothing to do with love. I have always felt that, and for me love is letting go. Also (and maybe indeed!) From my soulmate. (Renaat)