Q0156. I always forgive you, even if you hurt me so often. Why is that?

Unknown

Why do I still love him so much, while he has let me feel the deepest pain? I had not accepted it from anyone else. But I love my soul love more every day, despite the pain. Why don’t I hate him?

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I experience exactly what you write. And that you accept all of this is because he is your soul love. Soul love is always there, no matter what happens and whatever the person does. That does not make it any easier. Because in a “normal” situation you would have thanked you for so much pain and humiliation. But because Soul Love is unconditional, you take all this pain and you start to love him more and more … I wonder if there are people who can say something more about this … (Unknown)

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Soul Love: From Heaven to Hell, and from Hell to Heaven.Tis just like a Rollercoaster that you are in! Until you finally “Together” land on that cloud again! (Unknown)

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I do know it, my twinflame has hurt me to the depths of my soul (haha) a few times before. Funny that that happens with more people. I think that first of all you often hurt the person you love the most, as my family once said about my own actions now and then. And because someone has hurt you so much and you still love someone, you show what this person means to you, otherwise you would never have known that the relationship with this person or the connection is very special. And perhaps it also has to do with that mirror, that you have conflicts within yourself and thereby give a kind of self-harm to yourself by hurting the other person and thereby wanting to resist the intensity. I know how difficult it is and I also give a tip to try to forgive the other person for the things he has done to you. I myself was enormously hurt by my twinflame and when we came together again it didn’t become as magical as the first time, because I still had anger against him and because of that a wall over myself and that’s how you make it yourself or the other it is not easy. (Unknown)

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What a recognizable situation. I have been hurt a lot by my ex and yet I can’t live without him. Even today when he told me he was going with a friend of mine one day, I forgave him within a minute while I blame her for not saying anything. (Unknown)