Q0110. What now?

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I struggled for 6 years and fought and struggled not knowing what was going on. Now I know that I met my love for love 6 years ago and had to let go half a year later. I have such a pain of homesickness for him and longing for him sometimes it was unbearable. I ended up with a psychiatrist and he thought it was love sorrow that had to wear off. I already knew then that it was a bit different, something much deeper and so intense. Now I know what it is, but what next? Who knows what, I am sometimes desperate.

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No, you feel that there is a connection between you and the other at a very deep level. That there is somehow such a connection with that one, just that one beautiful person, that there is no other way or you have once been one. That it feels or that you have found yourself in that one. It really feels like you are attuned to each other. You are literally on the same wavelength. You feel the channel to which the other has tuned or the radio that flawlessly receives the other’s message, his or her desires, humor, worries, interests, feelings and thoughts. And then … then we meet someone who is very special; more special than the others, than that colleague, your father or mother, your boyfriend or girlfriend, your child. The moment you look each other in the eye you see as if in a mirror that you must have shared something very special together, someday. That you were once divorced but now reunited. You see in the other the happiness and sorrow of a long time ago. But above all you see the infinite love that you have ever shared. And who knows: maybe you see the unity that you were … the unity that was once torn apart but can now be healed. You may feel that your personality is only one side of you. That you are more than that and that the other is your other half, really literally your other half. That there once was a divorce, but now you can become whole, one. You feel a deep love for each other, respect, appreciation, attention. Not that you always agree, but there is something very special that lifts you above every “normal” love, every “normal” relationship. It may very well be that you meet your soulmate at a time when you are in a relationship. Whether there are things that give you the feeling that you should break with your current partner, your own feelings will show you the way. In itself there is no reason to end your current relationship because you have found your twinflame. It may happen that your current relationship has gradually prepared you for the meeting with him or her who turns out to be your other half. What a reason to be thankful for that person! Continue to meet him or her with respect and appreciation if you continue to share your life with your “other half”. Again: let your feeling speak to you and listen to it!… .. (Unknown) elevates any “normal” relationship. It may very well be that you meet your soulmate at a time when you are in a relationship. Whether there are things that give you the feeling that you should break with your current partner, your own feelings will show you the way. In itself there is no reason to end your current relationship because you have found your twinflame. It may happen that your current relationship has gradually prepared you for the meeting with him or her who turns out to be your other half. What a reason to be thankful for that person! Continue to meet him or her with respect and appreciation if you continue to share your life with your “other half”. Again: let your feeling speak to you and listen to it!… .. (Unknown) elevates any “normal” relationship. It may very well be that you meet your soulmate at a time when you are in a relationship. Whether there are things that give you the feeling that you should break with your current partner, your own feelings will show you the way. In itself there is no reason to end your current relationship because you have found your twinflame. It may happen that your current relationship has gradually prepared you for the meeting with him or her who turns out to be your other half. What a reason to be thankful for that person! Continue to meet him or her with respect and appreciation if you continue to share your life with your “other half”. Again: let your feeling speak to you and listen to it!… .. (Unknown) Whether there are things that give you the feeling that you should break with your current partner, your own feelings will show you the way. In itself there is no reason to end your current relationship because you have found your twinflame. It may happen that your current relationship has gradually prepared you for the meeting with him or her who turns out to be your other half. What a reason to be thankful for that person! Continue to meet him or her with respect and appreciation if you continue to share your life with your “other half”. Again: let your feeling speak to you and listen to it!… .. (Unknown) Whether there are things that give you the feeling that you should break with your current partner, your own feelings will show you the way. In itself there is no reason to end your current relationship because you have found your twinflame. It may happen that your current relationship has gradually prepared you for the meeting with him or her who turns out to be your other half. What a reason to be thankful for that person! Continue to meet him or her with respect and appreciation if you continue to share your life with your “other half”. Again: let your feeling speak to you and listen to it!… .. (Unknown) In itself there is no reason to end your current relationship because you have found your twinflame. It may happen that your current relationship has gradually prepared you for the meeting with him or her who turns out to be your other half. What a reason to be thankful for that person! Continue to meet him or her with respect and appreciation if you continue to share your life with your “other half”. Again: let your feeling speak to you and listen to it!… .. (Unknown) In itself there is no reason to end your current relationship because you have found your twinflame. It may happen that your current relationship has gradually prepared you for the meeting with him or her who turns out to be your other half. What a reason to be thankful for that person! Continue to meet him or her with respect and appreciation if you continue to share your life with your “other half”. Again: let your feeling speak to you and listen to it!… .. (Unknown)

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But what if your other half does not want to share his life with you? can it go well if one stays in his relationship and the other has given up his relationship, and you enter into a love relationship with your twin … will that not give up on both sides at a given moment? is it not going to be disruptive .. (unknown)

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For me it would be disruptive, I would not be able to do that in the long run, you go for something or you do not go for something. go for my feelings, for honesty, what do you maintain? am not jealous but a third wheel? no thanks for that i love myself too much (unknown)