Q0479. Soul love and addictions?

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Do people have experience with reinforcing addictions because they cannot be with their soul love? Not knowing how to deal with their loneliness and sadness, so that they become more anchored in addictions?

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Yes in mild form; I have searched for a long time in esotericism; often against better judgment; am quite sober. I have now been able to distinguish between what I like; i-ching and the rest and am no longer so intensively involved. it was a bit of an addiction for me to forget myself and look for answers that soul love did not give me but have now discovered that most of the answers are in myself and that meditation makes me much happier and that I am actually good at my job wherever I am I am healthy addicted to, and I love people. but addictions … gaming cigarettes, alcohol, sex … I see that around me give no answer, fill up time but no pain … I can only cry … hope that these people realize that a twin cannot solve that, no matter how eager they are, but send a lot of love!

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Yes, I could imagine something more because of that sadness, the lack, but it works the other way around, because I know my soul love and know that he also loves me, you can let those old habits better .. you feels that you are actually losing out, your energy is more difficult to hold .. well I can imagine that you just do not want to feel the loss anymore and therefore you fall back into addictions, you look for expansion but you do not get it, it makes you more emotional and labile and the pain will come back again … until you create a situation where you feel good, where you are at home. (Unknown)

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I have also experienced that my soulmate, because of the intense love between the two of us, went to the heavy drugs. Afterwards he had always been addicted. Because he can’t handle things in life, and then falls back immediately. And when you also come across a soul love that is so deep and so moving. He couldn’t take it all anymore, not only because of this love but throughout his life together. And then the drugs are extra attractive. I released it … (Unknown)

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“Thinking” is what I experience as the most frightening addiction. (Unknown)

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Je pense donc je suis; think, animals cannot think, have instinct … that distinguishes man from the animal. do not condemn thinking; it doesn’t need to get in the way of feeling, it can also support it. (Unknown)

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If your mind starts to think what your heart already knows then you are thinking well. if your mind keeps thinking this I do not want it works against you .. then your head keeps you away from your deepest desire and you deny your feeling. (Unknown)