After you had to distance yourself from your soul love, are there people who have since become happy with someone else? Could the person bring you back that peace? Was the love as deep as you were with your soul love?
First of all, I have experienced that you cannot really distance yourself from your Soul Love… If you think for a while that you are…, then after a while you will discover that the Soul Love feeling is all still just in your heart : you have tucked it away … to be able to continue with your life and not have to be confronted with that pain and sorrow. I have now met someone who is in the same situation as me and I am surprised to discover that we can give each other love and attention … right now, knowing that there is someone else in our life for whom we feel the deep Soul Love … Probably because of the unique combination of us together, we can enjoy and love each other for the moment and also love each other … but we know that this very special love is very deep with us. I see this as a kind of gift, a kind of guest party to relax from all the sorrow and pain that we have both felt for so long. A time of enjoying and relaxing again and as part of the learning process in which we are involved. I don’t know if it is possible to love someone again, who is not or has not been in such a Z.Love trial … it seems to me very difficult to understand than for that person … that there is STILL someone … who is still deeper in your heart …. I am also curious about experiences about this. (William)
I also find this very interesting. I had to say goodbye to my soul love a year ago and I never saw her again. In the beginning I was afraid that I could never love someone else again because I thought I felt that deep love only for her. That I would no longer settle for ‘normal’ love. Now, a year later I think very differently. I notice that I can love other people NOW. Something I could not do before meeting my soul love. Perhaps this is personal, because one of the lessons I have learned from my soul love is that I must first love myself before I can give love to other people. I have not had another relationship after meeting my soul love,
My experience is correct, that I could never love someone else again, after my soul love. I miss a part that could make my soul love whole. (Unknown)
How nice that you can now love other people again; that has already brought you the love of soul, and that is not nothing. I think that’s just the way; if you get something positive out of it then you’re doing well. if you remain deeply unhappy because of it, are you not doing well? everyone will have both but it makes a difference if you know that. (Unknown)