Q0209. I don’t understand anymore, who can answer me?

Daan

In the past I never felt complete when I got to know my twinflame (or whatever they want to call it, because I think this is much stronger) then I experienced heaven on earth, now that it has not been with me in a while my daily life, but I still feel, smell, hear and even know what he is doing and where he is even though I don’t have any contact with him because he doesn’t want to, I live in hell on earth, when and when this on? I try to let him go, I really want to let him go, but the more I want to let go, the stronger the distance seems to be, and this is not what I want because I want to live, this is not life, why does a soul love take own it because that is how I feel it has taken possession of me day in and day out even in my sleep and in my dreams this is really no longer a life, I really want to find a way so that I can really break the bond with him forever. I have asked a question about this before, but no one has been able to give me a satisfactory answer.

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This sounds pretty frightening. Do you have an idea why you don’t want twinsoul to contact you? Apparently he wasn’t ready to meet you, at least his ego wasn’t ready. But it may well be that his soul desires just as much for you as you do for him. And that his soul therefore always appeals to you and that you feel that. But of course it remains to be guessed in this matter … What I do myself at times when I feel the presence of my twinsoul (who also does not want any further contact with me) is the following: sending intense love to him by – with my hand on my stomach – full of LOVE to think of him and speak to him lovingly … and then I get completely warm inside. Then I can continue with what I was doing. I cannot explain it, but I have the impression that his soul feels my loving thoughts and then comes to rest. And then leave me alone. Maybe a tip to try? In any case, try not to push away your love, but give in. (Unknown)

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Hi, nobody will be able to give a satisfactory answer to this. Only you can do that, because it is different for everyone and every person searches for the way that works best for him / her to deal with the sadness and the lack and the pain. To begin with, you could approach it positively and try to accept that you will always have these feelings because he belongs to you and you belong to him. and you will always know, feel, smell, etc. That is something that will never pass. If you would stop fighting all these feelings then I think it would be a lot better. Accept that it has become a part of you, and know that you will never be alone again. there is nothing better than knowing that there is always someone who really loves you and vice versa. Work on yourself because you cannot move forward and grow in this way. And then you indeed have no life. In fact, you don’t have to do much but simply love him. Then you love yourself too and everything is a lot lighter for you. In the end it’s all about love! Wishing you a lot of strength and I hope that one day it will feel better for you. (Marjon)

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A soul-love connection can never be broken, because this love is infinite. Be proud that this could happen to you and enjoy it. You can learn a lot from it. Do not sit back and think negatively but learn your lesson in unconditional love for each other. (Unknown)

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Exactly Marjon hits the nail on the head. Work on yourself, you need to learn both lessons from this, your bond will become stronger all the time. “This is how you learn”, this love is unconditional . Only when you have gone through those lessons together can you be happy. Together stronger than ever! Happy end! You belong to HIM and He belongs to YOU ​​!!! …… .. one soul together! (Unknown)

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Gosh, Daan, has your tz still not improved your condition? That takes long. After your other questions and answers that you have received, I expected that it would be a bit quieter for you. If you ask this question the same again, you will get the same answers as before. In my opinion it makes no sense to describe this again. I get it. But nobody gives you a satisfactory answer. Then it must be somewhere else. It is a problem, you may have to look in a completely different direction, which you do not expect. maybe you meet someone who happens to quote something and makes you feel that I can do something with it. The help often comes from an unexpected corner. I do know that working with your twinflame is very hard work. I don’t really believe in a psychic, they say that you get together again. That is not true. It is often 1x apart, stays apart. OK there will be exceptions, but the majority will remain separate from each other., Or she should talk about the hereafter, you will come together again. Have you done a lot of preliminary work here on earth? On earth you can solve problems faster and easier or say; then dissolve karma in the hereafter. It’s harder there. I can give you 1 tip; is talking, and the most with yourself. try to find out what’s yours and what’s yours. You may be in a kind of symbiosis, (maybe this is all nonsense, but in an ordinary relationship you have so many things that things run through each other, and you have to make things in place. Discover again what is mine, what is of the other, what kind of things does he do with me that I don’t like, what does he do that he is interested in and does nothing to me, then accept. If he can also indicate that then there is room again, also for love. Because I think that is missing in a relationship. There is then again respect for each other’s choices, feelings, etc. !!!!!!! If that is clear you can continue.) You think in the same way, and feel in the same way, but you have wishes and desires that have something to do with your twinflame. You are still a person pure. It seems to me that twinflames also have their own sign of problems and have to solve them themselves. It is often the case with twinflames that they blame each other for the problems they have together. Do something physical that symbolically pushes him away from you, if it is too much on your neck. If necessary, drama, to play it out. I think you should look inside what you need, in addition to his love that you want, even though it is now fascinating. (literally being captivated, being unfree) That feeling that floats around you, but find a middle way that you can be satisfied with. He, your twinflame should figure that out for himself just like you should. And compassion doesn’t help each other. You can let go of alkaar to a certain extent, you determine that height yourself. I have a dark brown suspicion that your twinflame cannot do anything with you, you already said, does not dare. If so, I think he is selfish, (to be allowed to judge) he is not alone in the world, does he want to avoid his problems? Does he feel responsible? I see a little boy in front of me (I don’t know him) who can’t solve problems for himself. She would rather give up and ignore. (judge for a moment) You will indeed, in my opinion, have to get rid of him. Find something you have intersse in and start doing it. Something that has nothing for your twinflame, read; has no intersse in it. Then he can’t disturb you there either. You have to have something for yourself And don’t let him get involved. Not yet) An idea? Can you do something with it (Gabrielle)

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Well Well Gabriélle, You dare to put something here. (I do not believe in a psychic, they say that you still get together again. That is not the case. It is often 1x apart, stays apart.) Often it is “temporarily” apart, and together forever. Gabriélle, Maybe you have other experiences, sorry if your soul love no longer comes to you, but that is really not the case with most! And paraganostics to speak to, what are you talking about, if you don’t even believe in it ???? (Kim)

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Question to Gabrielle: Do you know yourself, what Soul Love / Twin Souls means / means? Because you give me a judgment here, I think you still have a lot to learn. (Unknown)

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Kim is right, You cannot make any statements about clairvoyants, while you have no experience of it yourself. Know for certain that clairvoyants are real (not all) and that they make fair predictions for the future. You just have to find the right one. That will also give you some peace of mind. (Unknown)

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Twinflames cannot let go of each other and will always visit each other again. No one else can take over that place in your heart. (Unknown)

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Thank you for your answers, and yes soul love is hard to understand, my soul love and I do not understand. We have met three times since last week, and have talked to each other. soul love you will never get rid of it again it is the most strange love that exists, these feelings are unprecedented. my soul love told me this week that he wanted to block himself for me, but that it turns out to be impossible whatever he does. Precisely because this love is so strong he says he is so frightening, these feelings are so strong that you sometimes have to test yourself and someone else. he told me that he loves me, but really with heart and soul. and he told me that he loves that this love can overcome the things we have done to each other. unconditional love really exists. And not that we should be together, but once in a while you need it to let your energy come together by seeing each other. And I want to thank everyone for his or her answer, positive or negative because even negative answers make you strong, it certainly gives no false hope or something. And as for a psychic, I don’t need that, I think, because my deceased brother is with me and he sends and leads me in the way that I have to go., Yes, and soul love is heavy and anyone who can carry it will have it but you have to be able to wear it and that is not always easy because in love, unconditional love, it is not always pink and moonshine. I will try to keep you informed whether soul loved ones can come together again or not. (Daan) but once in a while you need your energy to come together by seeing each other. And I want to thank everyone for his or her answer, positive or negative because even negative answers make you strong, it certainly gives no false hope or something. And as for a psychic, I don’t need that, I think, because my deceased brother is with me and he sends and leads me in the way that I have to go., Yes, and soul love is heavy and anyone who can carry it will have it but you have to be able to wear it and that is not always easy because in love, unconditional love, it is not always pink and moonshine. I will try to keep you informed whether soul loved ones can come together again or not. (Daan) but once in a while you need your energy to come together by seeing each other. And I want to thank everyone for his or her answer, positive or negative because even negative answers make you strong, it certainly gives no false hope or something. And as for a psychic, I don’t need that, I think, because my deceased brother is with me and he sends and leads me in the way that I have to go., Yes, and soul love is heavy and anyone who can carry it will have it but you have to be able to wear it and that is not always easy because in love, unconditional love, it is not always pink and moonshine. I will try to keep you informed whether soul loved ones can come together again or not. (Daan) And I want to thank everyone for his or her answer, positive or negative because even negative answers make you strong, it certainly gives no false hope or something. And as for a psychic, I don’t need that, I think, because my deceased brother is with me and he sends and leads me in the way that I have to go., Yes, and soul love is heavy and anyone who can carry it will have it but you have to be able to wear it and that is not always easy because in love, unconditional love, it is not always pink and moonshine. I will try to keep you informed whether soul loved ones can come together again or not. (Daan) And I want to thank everyone for his or her answer, positive or negative because even negative answers make you strong, it certainly gives no false hope or something. And as for a psychic, I don’t need that, I think, because my deceased brother is with me and he sends and leads me in the way that I have to go., Yes, and soul love is heavy and anyone who can carry it will have it but you have to be able to wear it and that is not always easy because in love, unconditional love, it is not always pink and moonshine. I will try to keep you informed whether soul loved ones can come together again or not. (Daan) And as for a psychic, I don’t need that, I think, because my deceased brother is with me and he sends and leads me in the way that I have to go., Yes, and soul love is heavy and anyone who can carry it will have it but you have to be able to wear it and that is not always easy because in love, unconditional love, it is not always pink and moonshine. I will try to keep you informed whether soul loved ones can come together again or not. (Daan) And as for a psychic, I don’t need that, I think, because my deceased brother is with me and he sends and leads me in the way that I have to go., Yes, and soul love is heavy and anyone who can carry it will have it but you have to be able to wear it and that is not always easy because in love, unconditional love, it is not always pink and moonshine. I will try to keep you informed whether soul loved ones can come together again or not. (Daan) unconditional love, it is not always rose scent and moonshine. I will try to keep you informed whether soul loved ones can come together again or not. (Daan) unconditional love, it is not always rose scent and moonshine. I will try to keep you informed whether soul loved ones can come together again or not. (Daan)

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Thxxks Dear that you want to keep us informed. I and I also hope the rest will keep each other informed when we get back together. 2007 the year of the attraction. of souls 😉 (Unknown)

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I am happy for you Daan that there is therefore a solution somewhere. Fortunately I now have a relationship with my Twin Soul, which I never thought possible. I find it very special. In my response to your question, I did not want to judge, but at that moment I just got that inspiration, but well, end well, all right. I hope this reaction will be posted on the internet, because my previous reaction will not. Would you like to do this Tiny, and thanks for all the effort, it makes a lot of sense to talk about it, I haven’t done that for 7 years, now I do, and that’s because of this site. Thank you (Gabrielle)

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Most people with this soul love experience make the mistake of giving up, losing their faith in it. Ultimately go for a “limp” alternative. There is no replacement in love !!! There was 8 years between my first and second meeting! Well … do you want the grand prize or do you settle for less? Read books about things like this, it helps to turn your negative feeling into positive power. Or look on youtube for “the secret”, for example. Or if you are ready for it yourself: get out, be determined, don’t take a no as an answer. Chakaa! Here I come, you can’t hide Going to find you and make you want me! Realize that you will receive what you give! (Gabrielle)

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While I cry an ocean of tears, I search the internet for information about twinflames. That is how I ended up with Daan’s question. Balm for my deep wounds. Met my “soul” on January 5, 2011. That’s how I described the feeling that came over me when I first saw my lover. A chance encounter. He asked me to eat out. Immediately then knew that if no reunion would follow, I would suffer untold. Incomprehensible! How can you miss someone you’ve only seen twice? I now know why. We saw each other again, on an irregular basis. He fought fiercely with himself and sometimes literally said that he should not allow himself to love me. That his financial affairs were the most important. At a certain point we had come very close together and we both knew that this was fair, sincere and good. I had now really become a danger to his material ‘having and keeping’. He probably felt himself coming to a point that he would succumb to the intense feelings he had for me. When did the unorthodox end come or not? Because I had not heard him for a while I called him and was told: “it is up to me, it is all up to me” “I misrepresented things” “You are the sweetest woman I have ever met”. And a whole hymn about me followed. He then decided that I should stay calm and – if necessary – take a tranquilizer. What a farewell! Did not fit at all with a man who is so warm, soft, human and tender. Was terrible in a panic. Because without him I am not ‘whole’ anymore. Felt mutilated. A piece of myself was gone. My soul was gone. Called him after a few weeks to ask if we could talk about his decision or whatever it was, so that I could process the event in one way or another. He did not say “no,” but stopped the boat with all kinds of excuses. 3 weeks ago I emailed him pictures of a trip to Naples. Did not add a personal message, but funny texts. Wanted to let you know: I am still here, I am still in your life and I am not a threat to you. Knew he wouldn’t answer. But that didn’t matter. Suddenly, last Friday, a phone call came from him: clumsy and meaningless and at the same time saying everything. Yesterday I heard from a common friend of ours that he recently asked him “do you hear anything from Rita” “I don’t, but maybe it’s better this way”. The poor man has erected a wall that he himself runs up against, and I stand on the other side and put my hand on his heart and hope that he can feel it – through the stones. Ask me how many months, years it will take before he will demolish the wall. Know that in the meantime I will have to find another source to which I can feed myself: something that can give me a good feeling until we can be ‘physically’ together again. Because after all, it is still our hearts and souls. I am starting to realize that more and more. I was glad to read that someone wrote: I don’t do it anymore for less. Well that expresses exactly what I feel: no surrogate or half states for me anymore. No relationships because being alone is not pleasant. My circle of friends does not understand me and thinks I should go hunting immediately under the motto “different and better”. Maybe their comments are well intended. But for me they feel like ‘heartless’. I’m 55 and according to them I don’t have time to waste anymore. I think there is something else that I should not waste, namely my untold precious and beautiful feelings for my soul lover. Then I would only betray myself and him. Hopefully time and destiny are good for all of us here and we can be reunited with our soul loved ones in the foreseeable future. (Rita) My circle of friends does not understand me and thinks I should go hunting immediately under the motto “different and better”. Maybe their comments are well intended. But for me they feel like ‘heartless’. I’m 55 and according to them I don’t have time to waste anymore. I think there is something else that I should not waste, namely my untold precious and beautiful feelings for my soul lover. Then I would only betray myself and him. Hopefully time and destiny are good for all of us here and we can be reunited with our soul loved ones in the foreseeable future. (Rita) My circle of friends does not understand me and thinks I should go hunting immediately under the motto “different and better”. Maybe their comments are well intended. But for me they feel like ‘heartless’. I’m 55 and according to them I don’t have time to waste anymore. I think there is something else that I should not waste, namely my untold precious and beautiful feelings for my soul lover. Then I would only betray myself and him. Hopefully time and destiny are good for all of us here and we can be reunited with our soul loved ones in the foreseeable future. (Rita) namely my untold precious and beautiful feelings for my soul lover. Then I would only betray myself and him. Hopefully time and destiny are good for all of us here and we can be reunited with our soul loved ones in the foreseeable future. (Rita) namely my untold precious and beautiful feelings for my soul lover. Then I would only betray myself and him. Hopefully time and destiny are good for all of us here and we can be reunited with our soul loved ones in the foreseeable future. (Rita)