Q0191. How do you keep in touch with your soul love when you are married?

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How do others do that if they are married and still want to keep in touch with their soul love?

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always keep that spiritual bond, you feel each other at every moment, that stays forever. Contact remains, you are like a magnet, pulling together. Love will make you suffer the way to each other. I keep in touch via e-mails, calling, and when we are both ready, both have only grown. Everything comes at the right time, if you understand what I mean. The time will indicate t, when the moment is there, that we may go through life together. (Unknown)
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First of all I want to say that I have already found a lot of support in reading the questions and answers on this site! Fantastic!! Thank you everyone for that!
I have a family right now, I am married, and more than a year ago I met my soul love again (we knew each other from the past). Gained a lot of insights, a strong feeling towards each other, and yet (probably out of fear) I can’t afford to choose for myself and end my marriage. Partly because I feel guilty towards the children. My soul love and I have a strong sexual attraction to each other and when we happen together and ‘magical’ things … words are not necessary, just looking at each other can already cause so much. I do not know this feeling with my current husband and at first I was terribly confused by this event. We are now a year later and I want (partly because I cannot make the decision) a friendship with him, and keep my marriage (despite knowing that I am not choosing my own happiness with this). Now he has chosen to ‘take a distance’ from me and the situation. Which in itself is very understandable. Why do I want to keep both my own worlds and can I not make my choice … what fear keeps me from … I am not terribly sad and tired of myself … why can’t I get into the ‘old’ which no longer serves a purpose at all release love? Why is this so difficult? (Unknown) Why do I want to keep both my own worlds and can I not make my choice … what fear keeps me from … I am not terribly sad and tired of myself … why can’t I get into the ‘old’ which no longer serves a purpose at all release love? Why is this so difficult? (Unknown) Why do I want to keep both my own worlds and can I not make my choice … what fear keeps me from … I am not terribly sad and tired of myself … why can’t I get into the ‘old’ which no longer serves a purpose at all release love? Why is this so difficult? (Unknown)

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Yes, I know the old thing that no longer serves a purpose. I just had that feeling, feeling guilty towards a partner because I thought I was not allowed to do that, I am now a few years later and I find that it is better for both of us that I have chosen. it is difficult but what is better? stay in a relationship that is no longer full or choose where your heart lies, with whom you want to be but also where you have grown to. Recently a psychic told me that you are ready to accept that enormous love from above and to start using it. That it is meant to grow further in it. the old situation serves nobody anymore .. really not and you also remember the other to continue to grow and hopefully to get a full relationship again. But you are not responsible for the happiness of another, which I always thought. the feeling of guilt has held me back for a very long time, about 3 years or so, the love is still there for my ex-partner but it is a love that gave me no satisfaction anymore, another dimension that sometimes made me tired. a difference in energy that drains you no matter how dear the partner intended. letting go in love what is no longer good is also love .. he who doubts is in a vacuum and if you make a decision to your heart and in love then the universe helps you, is my experience .. love .. strength (Unknown)