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He says [still … after he has left]: “I do not want contact with you …” … … I feel that he feels very different in his heart … .. Who has the same experiences with it? And did he / she finally come to you again?
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Some people cannot handle this turbulent soul love. Afraid to discover the shadow sides of yourself. They then opt for an ordinary earthly love. But those ordinary loves pass. While soul love is unconditional. Because we both have an abuse history (with everything that triggered it afterwards), the confrontations are sometimes very heavy and even so heavy that I have thought for a few times “I wish I hadn’t met her”. I also wanted to break up with the relationship a number of times because I almost couldn’t take it anymore. However, I did not do this because there was a realization that I indicated that I would break with myself. Something like this was new to me, but it felt very clearly that way. The intensity of the confrontations is sometimes enormous, but love remains, and becomes even stronger, and each time one of us reaches out to the other. Love does not suffer from the sometimes so heavy gravity, on the contrary, we realize that the relationship builds on us and clearly have the awareness that we continue to heal through this touch. Together we go through a true transformation process and it seems that nothing remains the old. There are signs that a lot is still ahead of us, not visible, but tangible and very large. Coincidence does not exist when you meet. You have a goal together. Perhaps he is not ready for it now, or the confrontation is not yet ready. I wish you a lot of light, power and love in this process … (Unknown) Together we go through a true transformation process and it seems that nothing remains the old. There are signs that a lot is still ahead of us, not visible, but tangible and very large. Coincidence does not exist when you meet. You have a goal together. Perhaps he is not ready for it now, or the confrontation is not yet ready. I wish you a lot of light, power and love in this process … (Unknown) Together we go through a true transformation process and it seems that nothing remains the old. There are signs that a lot is still ahead of us, not visible, but tangible and very large. Coincidence does not exist when you meet. You have a goal together. Perhaps he is not ready for it now, or the confrontation is not yet ready. I wish you a lot of light, power and love in this process … (Unknown)
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True feelings have a magnetic power! That is stronger than not wanting! … Do not fear, it is not necessary. If you feel that he loves you, then that is so, don’t start doubting, doubting will make you sad. Doubting gives way. (Unknown)
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A deep beautiful love, but also a deep pain. I never knew that love can be so beautiful and go so deeply, but neither that love can hurt so much. Although I have no regrets that I was allowed to experience it. I really don’t know how to handle that pain. I completely lost myself. I want to die without him. Although there are enough people who love me and love me. I only want him! (Unknown)
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I understand you, I have just felt those uncertainties! And if suddenly you are taken away and you are ignored, it hurts. Very logical, you are human. Soul love cannot be understood. I keep the distance and allow that person space, but that person is constantly in my head. I hear and see everything that person does or says! even though I don’t do anything with it. My head is really full of that person !! I get up with her and go to bed with her and in between I often dream about her. When I am not with that person I feel idd empty, lonely and frustrated. Whoever loses herself in her passion has lost less than who loses her passion. (L)
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Letting go is painful. While there are also couples with whom it is too painful to keep in touch. Three years ago he wanted to break the contact because it was too confusing for him. I could understand this but I definitely didn’t want to close it. I didn’t want to be a memory. I want it to be open what the future brings. And so it has been going well for the past three years. We inform each other about two or three times. As long as you are open and honest with each other. (L)
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You send energy to each other and you also pick it up from each other. Only his fear stops it… as soon as he throws his fear overboard, you feel his energy, let him do what his feelings give him… let love do his work… and don’t doubt it. Soul love is accompanied by Hobbels. Ultimately, the feeling wins over the mind. (Unknown)
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While there are also couples with whom it is too painful to keep in touch. Three years ago he wanted to break the contact because it was too confusing for him. I could understand this but I definitely didn’t want to close it. I didn’t want to be a memory. I want it to be open what the future brings. And so it has been going well for the past three years. We inform each other about two or three times. As long as you are open and honest with each other. (Unknown)
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“In silence, the eyes betray the secrets of the heart.” (Unknown)
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Losing your soul love when you are so close together, that is the worst thing that can ever happen to you, little by little you feel yourself dying off. Fear destroys soul love. From Fear you start suppressing things, or worse, for walking away. Time heals all love. But in the meantime, one of the two will be destroyed by grief. (Unknown)
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All the words written about the breaking, the end, make me die. Every day that I experience, I die a little more inside, the feeling of all sorrow only gives me the realization that there is nothing but the certainty of the loss. But where does this processing take us? Till death do us part? I don’t know and can’t say, the only thing I know is that I have nothing left but the sweet memory … Of “all” relationships I have been allowed to have, this is the only one I knew I was ready , never had to search again, could share forever, crawl away, joy, for the rest of my existence … That day I died …. inconsolable, never being able to feel her warmth again … (Unknown)
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Nostalgia for your soulmate. Nostalgia for the person who showed me heaven. Now I know what it is. {Love Hurts}. I can’t live anymore, I don’t want to live anymore. I’m empty. The years fly by. I will be a different person. No longer the spontaneous person who always smiled, the person who was always cheerful. I have lost the person I was. The day I lost my soulmate, I lost myself too. My life will never be the same again. (Inge)
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Letting go is very scary for our ego, because we are afraid of losing what we hold dear. We think that letting go means that the other person is not important to us and that we do not show enough love for the other because we can let the other person go. But the opposite is precisely the case, daring to let go of the other is a sign of true love, which, as our soul wants, is based on unconditionality. Letting go means that you trust that the other person will not run away, but will stay with you on your own free will and want to continue sharing that bond with you. Letting go means giving the other person the freedom to be themselves and to follow his / her own path. Be proud of every little step forward in your lessons release, because you practice top sport and that can cost quite a bit of blood, sweat and tears. If you can let go of the best you have, then you can do everything. Being able to let go of your greatest love ever is really top sport. It costs blood sweat and lots of tears. (Unknown)
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I think most of the men don’t really think about how you feel after they finish. They are rude and think of themselves. (Unknown)
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Men change their feelings differently, they seem rude, but they may have more pain than you think. Women say so, and Men withdraw. Silence hurts more than words. But men are just like that. (Unknown)
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With your mind you “know” that you have to let go, but your feeling “says” something completely different. My soulmate has broken contact with me and in the beginning I was completely devastated. Now, a few months later, I feel myself becoming stronger, I have come across myself again and I have regained my wholeness. Because as beautiful as it is together with your soul love, it should also only be that beautiful. That is a difficult and painful process, but I am working hard on it and I think of him with an inner smile. Someday we will meet again, somewhere, somehow… (Unknown)
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I am glad that my soulmate broke contact with me at the time. He meant well. I had never discovered all this. I’m no longer sad either; this is just the way (Unknown)
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Last year, too, I suddenly received a text message stating that he no longer wanted any contact, nor did he want to explain anything and would prefer to end everything without drama. Another would have been banned from my system immediately. I knew he wouldn’t get mad if I contacted him anyway, so after two months I decided to send him an email telling me it was damn hard to forget. The idea that he would read the e-mail would be a good conclusion for me and did not expect an answer. 2 days later he emailed that he fully understood me and that he did not mind at all that I mailed him .. I could continue to email him. Until now have been in contact very occasionally .. the conversations remain super .. but actually agree ..