Q0164. Why does a moment come when you lose yourself?

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Soul Love. The Deepest Love EVER. The happiest moment of your life. Then why does it come when you lose yourself? Precisely because it is so deep? Must someone first hit the end of the pit before you can be happy again?

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If you lose yourself, you lose yourself because it gives you the opportunity to find your real self (again). You are shaken awake as it were. Shaking awake means that you get a deep insight into what you do why in your life. And insight into who you are and insight into what you really find important in life. And what role love plays in your life. You can then come to the conclusion that you are not doing what you think is really important. Or that you don’t live the way you are. Now that you have this knowledge, now that you have been awakened, you have the choice of whether you are going to live your life as it is really important, as you really are. You can also choose r not to do that of course. Waking up shaking forces you to choose how you want to continue with your life. The confrontation of waking your soul by your soul love is very fierce but only the beginning, those choices that you stand for are also very fierce to make because they are often very fundamental choices. And then you still have to change your life so that you start living according to your choices, which is also very intense because you are now changing your life yourself. You could say that the choices you make after you wake up and the changes in you life that is the result of it is nothing but finding your real self again. In this way you have first lost your (not real) self to find your real self again. (Tiny) And then you still have to change your life so that you start living according to your choices, which is also very intense because you are now changing your life yourself. You could say that the choices you make after you wake up and the changes in you life that is the result of it is nothing but finding your real self again. In this way you have first lost your (not real) self to find your real self again. (Tiny) And then you still have to change your life so that you start living according to your choices, which is also very intense because you are now changing your life yourself. You could say that the choices you make after you wake up and the changes in you life that is the result of it is nothing but finding your real self again. In this way you have first lost your (not real) self to find your real self again. (Tiny)

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Yet people often make choices from fear, they choose something they don’t want. Or don’t dare to make the decision yet. And then you have that soul love sorrow that you come across on this site. Knowing that love is so deep but at the same time misunderstanding. Two people who are unhappy. Why listen to your mind? While the heart is so full of love? You then choose to go through life unhappily. But the question is; How long do you hold something like that? (Bas)

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If the person does not want to do something, then not while it actually hurts / hurts me, but then I become very hard / indifferent. Then I am going to repel, feel bad, actually want it differently but cannot … Walls I call it … within no time thick reinforced concrete walls .. And before that wall is crumbled again. Who recognizes it, Building walls for your self-protection, protection against pain? (Unknown)

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I recognize it. But that in the behavior of my soul love. He soon erected a wall when he realized that there was more to us than just a nice friendship. Yes, that was a shock. He once lost something that he loved very much; it’s scary to have to go through something like that again, so he doesn’t give it a chance and puts his feelings away. But I do notice that he has them, I pierce that mask. Somehow I think it is a shame to “waste your time” in this way, since he may miss out on the best experience of his life … But I am not pushing him, have been patient for years … And his wall starts it crumbling little by little in the last six months and he shows more and more of himself, so I have every confidence in him. In our. It is often (has been) difficult,