Q0036 Why do people often end up in a personal crisis after love for their souls?

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What strikes me is that almost everyone, by coming into contact with his soul love, ends up in a crisis. With many of the stories on your site I have such a feeling that the people are in a deep crisis who also have morbid traits. For example, I have been in a state for two months what you call “hypomaniac” and is considered alarming in mental health care. I slept very little without being bothered, my moods changed quickly, I lost several kilos and I found it extremely difficult to do everyday things, such as the household. I have also spent too much money. So very confronting. I also see similar things in others. Do you have an idea why that is?

Answer
Soul love and crisis. I think it can sometimes take years before you can or dare to integrate the insights you have gained into your everyday life. The profound insights that you experience very suddenly can often hardly be incorporated in the pace and intensity in which they come. You see this a lot in the stories about soul love. Another way to be able to process this is that you can also let yourself be carried along for a while with all new experiences and only process everything at a later time (I did that myself). That way you won’t miss a thing of the experience. And if you have no idea how to handle this or if you didn’t make a choice how to deal with those extreme experiences at the moment, then as compensation you will automatically do ‘exaggerated things’ as a sort of outlet, for example very little sleep or lose weight, etc. You can also experience phenomena that you have a lot of insights and therefore become super active in your way of thinking. You are, as it were, ‘unstoppable’ and many puzzle pieces fall into place for yourself. The annoying thing about this is that you can continue to ‘grind’ and end up in a state of thinking, thinking and thinking. You want to understand everything at the same time and you think through. Because of this you can hardly feel anymore. Then you need peace, quiet and distraction. (Tiny) You are, as it were, ‘unstoppable’ and many puzzle pieces fall into place for yourself. The annoying thing about this is that you can continue to ‘grind’ and end up in a state of thinking, thinking and thinking. You want to understand everything at the same time and you think through. Because of this you can hardly feel anymore. Then you need peace, quiet and distraction. (Tiny) You are, as it were, ‘unstoppable’ and many puzzle pieces fall into place for yourself. The annoying thing about this is that you can continue to ‘grind’ and end up in a state of thinking, thinking and thinking. You want to understand everything at the same time and you think through. Because of this you can hardly feel anymore. Then you need peace, quiet and distraction. (Tiny)